I’m Rob Kowalski. I used to believe monogamy-only was God’s design... until I studied Scripture for myself and realized what we’ve been told doesn’t line up with the truth. This site exists to help you unlearn cultural lies, rediscover biblical order, and build a life that honors God, whether that means finding a wife, leading your home, or reforming your church.
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I used to be Baltimore's most sought-after male stripper, living wild and chasing women, thinking I had it all.
Then I met Jesus and left that life behind. I embraced radical obedience, spent nearly two decades celibate, and became a vocal advocate for purity and the monogamy-only model I was taught. I even wrote a best-selling book on abstinence and led the Christian purity movement.
But over time, I saw the cracks. I lost amazing women because I believed I could only marry one. I wrestled with guilt, loneliness, and confusion.
When I finally opened the Bible for myself, everything changed.
Polygyny was never condemned. Monogamy-only was never commanded.
The church had been selling a version of marriage that wasn’t biblical or sustainable.
Now, I help men and women break free from cultural lies and rediscover what God actually said.
Not to stir controversy, but to build strong families, revive biblical masculinity, and call the church back to truth.
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Man of Options
Course + Community
A self-paced course and community where Christian men reclaim biblical masculinity, build strong families, and explore polygyny. With structured lessons, weekly calls, and a supportive brotherhood, this is your foundation for growth.
Man of Options: 1-on-1 Coaching with Rob Kowalski
Ready for a faster path to marriage? 1-on-1 coaching with Rob helps you implement the Man of Options system, overcome resistance, and confidently attract your first (or next) wife, with an eye toward polygyny.
Founder of the Alliance of Biblical Communities
A movement uniting families and fellowships around biblical marriage and Spirit-led community. We equip believers to stand on truth the modern church has abandoned, through teaching, live gatherings, and local campuses.
Host of the
Kowalski Analysis Podcast
Unfiltered conversations on faith, masculinity, dating, and controversial truths the church is afraid to touch.
Featured Speaker & Media Guest:
Biblical truths that challenges tradition and ignites courage, Rob has inspired audiences around the globe with his message on biblical masculinity, and marriage.
Best-Selling Author of Why Waiting Works and MAN OF OPTIONS
Blending personal testimony, Scripture, and bold truth to challenge cultural lies and restore God’s design for marriage.
The #1 Course & Community for Christian Men Exploring Biblical Marriage
More than a course, it’s a brotherhood.
Learn how to lead, attract, and build a legacy-minded family rooted in Scripture, including the often-overlooked biblical option of polygyny.
Raise your confidence, your value, and connect with a bold tribe of men pursuing truth, purpose, and purity.
"Man of Options is a program offers the fast track for a man who is sick of the world’s games, and wants to conquer in life like the king unto the King of Kings God made him to be."
Tre Brickley
Where the Course + Brotherhood give you the blueprint, 1-on-1 Coaching makes sure you build it right.
Private calls and real-time text access with Rob mean you’ll always know what to say, when to say it, and how to hold frame when it matters most.
No more second-guessing. Just clear action and backup when you need it.
"Rob's coaching has been instrumental in helping me get engaged to a woman who is enthusiastic about serving me and God by my side, including in the future as we expand our household to include additional wives." - Man of Options Member
For women preparing to be wives... soon
Faithful Femininity is a private Telegram group for Christian women exploring biblical marriage, monogamous or plural.
Led by Sanne Kowalski, it’s a space for faith-filled women to grow, heal, and become the wives God is calling them to be.
This invite-only community serves as a hub for women already walking this path or seriously considering it.
The course and coaching calls will reopen soon. Apply now to join the group and get on the waitlist.
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The book the modern church doesn’t want you to read.
Why "one man, one woman" isn’t the whole story—and never was.
Monogamy-only doctrine isn’t just incomplete; it’s damaging. For years, I believed God’s design was one man and one woman, period.
But after a decade of sexual purity, failed relationships, and deep biblical study, I discovered the truth: The Bible never forbade polygyny. In fact, God used it to build His nation.
This book reveals:
● The scriptures pastors skip
● The history the church erased
● The damage caused by ignoring God’s full design for family
Get the book:
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Get Clarity, Fast
Need personalized direction on your journey, but not ready for a full coaching program? Book a 30- or 60-minute session with me for focused, strategic guidance.
Whether you’re navigating dating, biblical masculinity, fitness, business, or faith, this is your chance to get straight answers and actionable advice. Perfect for men who want clarity on next steps, help making a key decision, or a second set of eyes on their situation.
This is not my full Man of Options coaching program, just a powerful, one-time call to move you forward with confidence.
Kowalski Analysis By Rob Kowalski
Welcome to the Kowalski Analysis Podcast, where I challenge cultural norms, expose the truth about biblical marriage, and empower men to embrace their God-given masculinity. I offer practical advice, raw truth, and the motivation you need to become the leader, husband, and man you’re meant to be.
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